Are you talking about wireless sync with iTunes?
First, you must plug in your device to iTunes and check the box that says "Sync with this iPhone over Wi-fi"
Once you do that, your machine and iOS device must be on the same wireless network. iTunes will pick it up.
You Must be running the new iTunes and i believe the new iOS5
ok, I'm running 10.5b132, Please update to the latest version if you do not have that
mine might be beta, so, pleas make sure you run your updates and see if there is an iTunes update
10.5, iOS5.
Once you click the box how do you get the iPhone to sync to iTunes wirelessly? do you have to do something in order to start the sync.
make sure itunes is open and just plug your phone into a power source.
conversely go to Settings>General>Itunes sync> and click sync
make sure itunes is open and just plug your phone into a power source.
conversely go to Settings>General>Itunes sync> and click sync
To the OP did you restore from a backup? or setup as a new phone?
That's all fine and dandy, but like I said the problem is there's no box to check "sync with this iPhone over Wi-Fi"!
I don't understand, I restored, I have 10.5 and ios5, but that box still isn't showing up. Is it because I have Leopard?
You're looking in the correct place -- that is, on the summary page in iTunes after you've clicked on your phone in the left iTunes pane -- right? (like Acronym's picture -- you may have to scroll down to see the option within the right pane).