I don't quite understand why the HTML5 player on YouTube looks so bad, yet the HTML5 player on embedded YouTube videos looks good. Seems like embedded videos use the iPad's built in video GUI or something. It would seem smart to use the same player on their own site that they use for embedded videos.
Some examples...
Embedded video on Gizmodo. Simple and sleek player overlay:
Even lets you fullscreen. Just like watching a video stored locally on your iPhone/iPad:
Nasty looking player overlay on the same video at youtube.com:
Buttons overlapping and unaligned or other graphic defects. Can't fullscreen but can increase the video size similar to on a computer:
Some examples...
Embedded video on Gizmodo. Simple and sleek player overlay:

Even lets you fullscreen. Just like watching a video stored locally on your iPhone/iPad:

Nasty looking player overlay on the same video at youtube.com:

Buttons overlapping and unaligned or other graphic defects. Can't fullscreen but can increase the video size similar to on a computer:
