I am only running 48GB RAM at this moment, my 8GB sticks are UDIMM, and 16GB sticks are RDIMM, can't mix them together. So, all RDIMM 16GB sticks at this moment.
My memory usage is fine. Occasionally need some swap.
But since OP mentioned that it's just for light use or gaming. 24GB RAM should be more than enough. I doubt if more RAM can help anything significantly.
OK, I reread the sticky thread on CPU upgrades.
...and just bought a single CPU 4.1 server to take advantage of the W3690 chip.
(I already have a pair of X5690 chips that I've been saving for my dual processor 2012 cMP build)
On ebay, just now, both chips are virtually the same price.
I understand the OP sticking with the W3690, ...tell me again why the W3690 would be better for me.