In my experience people comparing "DSLRs" or more correctly mirrorless cameras to phone cameras don't know what they are talking about.Isn't current 4K on the 13 Pro already being compared to DSLR? Or am I mistaken?
A full-frame camera with a camera-sized lens and sensor with real glass elements and coatings will always give you a better picture. Always. Even with a ****** kit lens.
It's called physics.