Exactly! I don't know why people don't seem to understand where people are coming from! Its acceptable not to have flash on a phone, but the game changes completely when you have a far bigger screen, especially when you are claiming that netbooks suck and that you offer a better web experience than your own macs!!
I can understand that some people are accustomed to the content that Flash delivers. But can you understand why this is bad for the web?
Aside from being the only proprietary standard (standard because it is used so extensively), and aside from the fact that after many years new open standards are now available, the presence of Flash actually restricts and slow downs the development of technology.
If Flash were part of the iPhone Apple would have to wait on Adobe to optimize it as part of any future release. Additionally, whatever experience Flash provides through whatever new technology Apple develops would be dependent upon Adobe, not Apple. Apple can't simply write its own Flash plug in. The plug in must be provided by Adobe. And once Adobe provides it Apple can't optimize. If its buggy, users will blame Apple, not Adobe. If Apple can't release a new version of Safari because Adobe hasn't upgraded the Flash component then it will be Apple's fault.
The great thing about Apple products, and something that has been crucial to its recent success, is that its products work and if they don't you know who's at fault.
In any case, in the scheme of things, it probably is hard to understand why anyone would prefer Flash over better performing open standards that are now available. The immediate fix for content doesn't justify the long term detriment that Flash, to Adobe's exclusive benefit, has caused.