How do you find Affinity. My problem is having to learn a whole new set of applications and not being able to share with files in the industry who require Adobe files
I tried the Affinity suite. The main issues for me were in Affinity Photo. Really poor/non existent plug-in support (Topaz, Luminar, etc), no real attempt at smart object support (this was a killer for me), no easy way to replicate many Photoshop Actions with Affinity's macros, and really bad compatibility with PSDs. I also REALLY REALLY couldn't imagine living without Adobe's font library. Manually hunting down, paying for, and installing licensed fonts would be a nightmare for my specific use case.
I think if your work is focused on photo editing, restoration, or touch-ups, then it's a solid choice. But if you do any type of design or composite work, you'll be much better served with Adobe.
That said, Affinity Designer feels more in parity with Illustrator than Affinity Photo > Photoshop. I can't really speak to Affinity Publisher vs InDesign.