Owning both, they’re both equally good with engine & cabin noise cancellation. When used with in-flight entertainment, Bose include a 3.5mm to 2.5mm cable, whereas Apple’s 3.5mm to Lightning cable is a separate purchase (I brought the 3.5/Lightning cable),
Usually take both headsets on any given flight as my wife tends to want to borrow the Bose so she can watch in-flight films, whereas I either watch downloaded films/TV on my iPad or (more likely) podcasts & music from my phone.