Since people seem to be genuinely doubting my sanity, I just want to clarify: the software I need for work is REALLY memory hungry. Just google for Power BI and RAM recommendations and you will find plenty of threads on Reddit and who knows where recommending 16 GB as a minimum. This matches my experience. My old laptop had 16 GB Ram and I had crashes due to having not enough memory.
So I really don't want to be running on minimum and therefore I really need to be able to assign more than 16 to Parallels. If I had gone with 32 GB, I could have assigned 24 to Parallels and left 8 GB to myself. But if I had wanted to quickly do something in Lightroom while Power BI is busy refreshing data (with the amount of data I am running for clients a refresh can take 20, 30 minutes), I am not sure if 8 GB would have been good enough. So really, for me, it was a choice between getting 32 GB and risking slow downs in some cases or having 64 GB and peace of mind. If there had been a 48 GB option that would have probably been the perfect fit for me. But that's unfortunately not an option.
So I really don't want to be running on minimum and therefore I really need to be able to assign more than 16 to Parallels. If I had gone with 32 GB, I could have assigned 24 to Parallels and left 8 GB to myself. But if I had wanted to quickly do something in Lightroom while Power BI is busy refreshing data (with the amount of data I am running for clients a refresh can take 20, 30 minutes), I am not sure if 8 GB would have been good enough. So really, for me, it was a choice between getting 32 GB and risking slow downs in some cases or having 64 GB and peace of mind. If there had been a 48 GB option that would have probably been the perfect fit for me. But that's unfortunately not an option.