Frankly, all consumer routers are trash. Most actually use the same firmware underneath, which is full of vulnerabilities, and a quick Google search for consumer router security will tell you plenty of tales. They also have too many bugs to count, offer little to no debugging info, and have limited features.
As a network consultant, I have the pleasure of dealing with these things when a business calls us after their network goes down. Just the other day I was watching a DHCP server on a Netgear router silently crashing and failing to hand out IP addresses.
Here's what I would do: get an Ubiquiti Edgerouter Lite, any quality switch with more than enough ports for your needs, and a UAP-AC-LITE access point or two for wifi. You can get the more expensive stuff depending on your budget. You'll be much better off this way than with any consumer router and it might even cost less.
Okay... I wonder if I can have some advice
I have Verizon FIOS Gigabit internet with a straight Cat5e (going to replace with a Cat6) being ran from my fios ONT to my Verizon FIOS branded router
I haven’t made up my mind about getting either the Amplify HD with the to mesh antennas or the gaming version which is only a $25 difference
but what else else do I need... would I still need the edge router lite?
I it a $450 budget for this... I want an upgrade fast and reliable but secure network
the only wired devices that I have plugged in is my Xbox one and my 75 inch smart tv... if my network is fast and secure... I don’t care about just having all my devices in wifi