Am i being paranoid again?
Yes. Probably 99% of MBP owners don't usually read this forum or the Apple forums or any other about this kind of thing. You can't infer from the fact that there are now many people at forums like this who see these threads and then notice a problem that most people who haven't seen them notice anything. How many people in this thread have said they didn't notice it until they saw this thread?
As for people not following instructions to find the issue, what do you expect? Don't even have to read the first post to vote. And some who have followed the instructions still report no issue. It's not all as black and white as some prefer to think it is.
You still have't explained how it is that despite reports of this from last year, and reports from older machines and software now, that this is, according to you, so noticeable and alarming that most people would surely notice.
I think we can all agree that the big-name YouTubers can't be trusted. They are out there for your entertainment and they are making a living off these videos. None of them will call out Apple for an issue and jeopardize their relationship and access to free hardware with early hands-on.
Not based on what I've seen, which includes Youtubers who have been critical of Apple and past MBPs.
As I've pointed out before, some Youtubers receive free samples, and some do not. Some are fanboys, and some are not. Some prefer PCs. Even some who receive freebies from Apple have been critical of faults they've noticed before. It's not all the same, and the reviews can be quite useful.
This upgrade addresses things people have had issues with and improves performance, so it's natural that they're focused mainly on that and other basic performance matters, and are generally happy. Doesn't mean they're not reliable.