sorry everyone who is having problems, i kinda forgot a step.
at the bottom of your N45AP.plist file there should a header which looks like this
<key>special</key>
<array>
and right after that header, add these two entries.
<dict>
<key>displayIdentifier</key>
<string>com.apple.mobileipod-AudioPlayer</string>
</dict>
<dict>
<key>displayIdentifier</key>
<string>com.apple.mobileipod-VideoPlayer</string>
</dict>
save this new file and replace the one on the ipod.
should work.
Worked like a charm, thanks a million!