Did your card charged when you preorder? It should be lame your card to be charged and to wait 1-2 months your iPad to shipped out.
My card was charged the moment I preordered, but then it fell off. I didn't see any charges, so I went ahead and just cancelled my B&H order, and it cancelled it immediately. Then I placed an online order with Apple for in store pick up and got it that afternoon.
I did read that some got charged and posted to their account? I would be so mad if they charged me and waited 1-2 months to ship things to me. They should also charge your card the moment they ship it out.