This thread has gotten quite ridiculous. AirPods will do literally all but one of your ‘issues’ (volume). You may have to choose 2 out of three, however if you choose one as skip, the other as Siri, and then remove from ears as play/pause you get all of the things you are complaining about (again, except for volume control) When you get a call you can answer from either bud.
Try them out, or don’t.
So, with fiddling and configuring, and making some choices, I can do some of what my wired earbuds can do, but not the most important thing, volume control? Not good enough. And from what I'm hearing from folks, I shouldn't expect that to be fixed anytime soon. That is what I find ridiculous: that a $160 'innovative' product can't do what most any other 20 dollar wired headset can do, or what the free earbuds from Apple they are designed to replace can do. I don't know why some of you don't also.