You didnt pay for that. My parent did, by paying their taxes. Im paying for it now, by paying taxes. Thats how these systems are (supposed) to work. You get help when youre young and just starting out so that you get a good job, become a productive member of society, and then pay it all back later in taxes. Now, the system is sort of garbage, as the way they have it set up most people who get the money dont become productive member of society and dont pay it back in taxes. But like I said originally, I agree with you that these systems arent working properly. Does that mean that anyone who uses them is a freeloader? No.
So no, you didnt pay for me. You never have, and you never will. I dont want your money. I just needed a loan, that I am paying back and will continue to pay back for decades. To assume that anyone who accepts help from one of those programs, when they need it, is operating under a sense of entitlement simply because they accepted the help is close-minded and categorically false. Do the programs need to be revised to eliminate freeloaders? Sure. But should the government get rid of them all together? There is where I disagree with you, as I said originally. No.
Oh, and having children was a choice. Best choice I ever made. And thanks to programs designed exactly for those cases, I didnt have to pay for it with my career or wait seven to ten years. Dont judge the programs, judge the individuals abusing them. Sweeping accusations are never correct.