What is your budget? What are the main features you are looking for? What type of setup will it be going into -- speakers, sources, etc.?
Depending on budget, I would say Anthem, Onkyo, and Denon in that order. I have never been a huge fan of Sony or Pioneer AV gear. These are based on room correction and options primarily.
My top three suggestions (without knowing budget are:
Anthem MX300 ($1000 MSRP) - Offers ARC, which may be the best room correction on the market. This line brings many of the features and technologies available in the $7000 top of the line D2v processor from Anthem.
Anthem MX500 ($1500 MSRP) - Everything the MX300 has plus adds an Ethernet port for streaming and USB audio support.
Onkyo 3008/3009 ($2100 MSRP) - features Audyssey MultEQ XT32, which is the best Audyssey room correction on the market. This is also jam packed with tons of features that you may never ever use, but will glad they are there if you ever do need them.
If it matters, I own the Onkyo Pro 5508 ($2200 MSRP), which is the very big brother of the Onkyo 3008, but I was looking at the Anthem 50v ($4500 MSRP) but it came down to price in the end.
And yes, eric, being an audiophile does hurt the bank account more often than not...