Well the note is back at the AT&T store. As much as I tried to like android, I just couldn't. Here are my thoughts:
1) the overall size is amazing actually. I loved the big screen. I wish the note had a higher pixel density as the screen was nowhere near as sharp. One of the biggest drawbacks of android is that none of the app developers take advantage of the higher res screen.
2) Android OS just isn't my thing. Not going to comment as its obviously biased.
3) Battery wasn't bad for the size. Phone was super fast and any lag I felt was mainly due to software I felt.
4) call quality was amazing. Speed was good. No issues here.
If you can live with android, this phone is amazing. I can't, so now I'm back with my puny iPhone.