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You need the "server bridge" setting. Your remote machine must have an IP address of you LAN on the tap interface.
 
ok, i just tried it. now i can't even interact with the server.

i also thought that if i used the server-bridge command i would have to bridge the tap interface to my lan interface. and i dont think that is possible on a mac
 
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