I think the new 5D Mark II is still worth waiting for (at least until Photokina) as it just might include an APS-C crop mode. It's a longshot, but since nothing is known about the 5D Mark II, one might as well wait and see.
Doubt it. Canon's design supposedly doesn't physically allow Canon to allow their EF-S lenses to be fit onto their full frame cameras and have everything working. Nikon doesn't have that problem.
Also, a photo taken with a FF camera "cropped" to APS-C sized (due to severe vignetting) is only around 6 MP. From there, you'd have to crop even further to get the image you would have been after if you had an APS-C camera to begin with. If you just bought a D300 or 40D, you'd have 10 or 12 MP to crop from. If you crop a FF down to APS-C, you'll only have around 6 MP to crop and play with. That's not exactly the same as simply buying a current APS-C camera (or smaller in Canon's case).
Besides, the difference in high ISO performance isn't much better on a 5D, although it's an older sensor. I don't think there's much point buying a 5D for better ISO performance when the advantage over other cameras is so slim right now. The gap will widen once again when the 5D MkII is released, but not now. Besides, if he wants to go birding, cropping down to APS-C isn't a great option.