So after reading the strobist website, I think I will follow the advice and will get this kit:
1 x LumoPro Compact 7.5ft Stand w/Ground Spikes
1 x LumoPro Compact Umbrella Swivel w/ Variable Cold Shoe
1 x Westcott 43" Collapsible Umbrella with Removable Cover 15" FOLDED
1 x LumoPro Universal Hot Shoe Translator Kit w/Miniphone to Miniphone Sync Cord
1x LumoPro LP180 Quad-Sync Manual Flash
Reading all the good stuff about LP180 I think it will fit my needs well and its basically almost half price 162GBP vs 273GBP.
Strobist praises the LP180 so I'll go with it.
I wish I lived in USA as what you guys get for $300 I have to pay $450 for the same stuff
Paul, I looked at the Vivitar flash but in EU its expensive and the LumoPro is almost the same price so the Vivitar at that point probably won't make sense. I guess in USA it would be different story as its so cheap there.
I've decided to wait with the body for now and will get a new lense.
Here is my confusion though. Few people mentioned "fast lens" which to me I think you talk about the f number. The lower it is the more you can play with depth of field so at f2.8 the background will be blurred a lot. So, if I don't want to have blurred background and I shoot at 4.5 or higher then what would be the benefit of f2.8 lens? I know that lower the number is the more open it is and more light goes inside the lens but as mentioned above things will get more blurred that are out of focus. Or am I missing something?
I'm thinking about the 28-300 as kenrockwell and other reviews seem to be very positive about it (except the distortion but that can be fixed easily on the camera) so is that a right choice or am I missing something about the f number that is more than just "depth of field" player?
Also, thank you so much guys for all the advice you have given me so far. I've learnt a lot and the strobist website was extremely helpful

So you guys should give yourselves a high five. You were very nice to help a newbie
