I really wanted the XR to be good enough as my upgrade and I waited for the launch before upgrading to see what it offered. Unfortunately for me the XR had too many compromises and the bits that are better than the 8+ were just not enough to compensate for me.That’s all that matters at the end of the day, whether or not you enjoy the product. I know you were hesitant to upgrade from the 6S due to pricing and lack of an enticing upgrade at the price points. But good that you got a phone you can enjoy. It’s all subjective and choice is good.
I never really wanted a huge phone but this upgrade I wanted something different to my 6S so figured I had to go bigger to get a bigger jump in features. The telephoto lens, 1080p screen, and keeping 3DTouch was a must. Those three features alone were more important than the look of the phone or how I unlock it. You’re right it’s all about choice and I know for me I made the right choice. I would have bought the 8+ even if both iPhones were the same price to be honest.