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I don’t get people that want to keep messages forever. Why? Go back and reminisce about a text? I save the important images from iMessages and delete regularly. It’s almost like people want to hold something over others. Who cares what I said a year ago. Move on. I guess I’m in the minority on that.

It entirely depends on the subject and content of your conversations.

If one is chatting about nothing, than they are keeping a lot of nothing.
If one is chatting about work or other significant information, the ability to refer back to old exchanges can be a lifesaver, or in any case a time saver.
 
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Also yeah, I don’t understand the sentimentality of a text message. Do I really need to save every time someone asked me to pick them up something at the store?
Or the freaky stuff I’ve sent to exes?
No thank you.
 
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It’s nothing “so awful.”

Mainly just cursing and crass humor with my buddies that my parents wouldn’t really appreciate it, along with some sexual conversations and nude photos from lady fiends. Just stuff I don’t need them seeing if I’m laying dead in a ditch somewhere.

It’s not a big deal.
Unless they know your account information, they won't be seeing anything.
 
I have the opposite problem. I pretty much never delete messages in case I need them or just want to reflect on them in the future 😞
 
I do it, too.

Whenever I feel that a conversation is “over,” I delete the thread. I end up starting new threads with the same people multiple times a day, but if we chat for 5 minutes and then stop, I delete the thread.

It all stems from a fear of prematurely dying and having my parents look through my iPhone and MacBook and learning how horrible of a person I really am. Don’t need them seeing the way I talk to my friends.

Now it’s just a full blown OCD thing though.
They're your parents. Rest assured they already know :)
 
I have never deleted a thread from actual people I know, only 2FA codes and the like.

I have a 128GB phone, 2TB iCloud, 4TB Mac, 256GB iPad. A few gigs to keep priceless memories/information is acceptable I think.

I have no paranoia about someone finding my messages. They don't know my passwords, everything is encrypted and properly secured. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
 
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All I want is for my stupid Apple Watch to mirror my iPhone when it comes to messages, when I delete a message on my iPhone it should automatically delete that message on my Apple Watch as well.

If you're going to call it mirroring messages, then mirror it properly. 🙄🤦‍♂️
Same I can’t believe we still don’t have this, it drives me mad and there isn’t even a delete all messages
 
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It entirely depends on the subject and content of your conversations.

If one is chatting about nothing, than they are keeping a lot of nothing.
If one is chatting about work or other significant information, the ability to refer back to old exchanges can be a lifesaver, or in any case a time saver.

In some cases you need to keep them for legal reasons.
Those I backup to locked pdf.
 
I think I have to be alone on this one but I’m OCD about my messages threads and wanting to start fresh every day, instead of keeping the thread ongoing. Am I the only one that’s like this?
Always thought it was weird that my buddy did this. I'd look and see him receive a text, text back, and delete it. He had a totally clear messages app. It was 2 years later that I found out he'd been cheating on his wife the entire time. Suddenly a lot of his quirks started to make sense with that key context.
 
So you sync iphone to ipad? and the delete sync works?
Asking as mine does not. 12PM to IPP11
Yes. It didn’t until a recent release.

iPhone 11, Gen 3 Air, M1. Send as, only phone number checked (Apple Store employee recommendation) and in iCloud settings synch Messages.
 
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I think I have to be alone on this one but I’m OCD about my messages threads and wanting to start fresh every day,

May I respond to the multiple posters talking about OCD in saying that there's no relation with OCD and keeping your messaging organised (or your apps in colour coded order, or food shelves ordered in size, or albums in chronological order etc etc.) - these things are not OCD. It's is a debilitating anxiety order that ruins peoples lives and its least important factor is perfectionistic organising or having a clear messaging list.

OCD being constantly used as a adjective to describe our little personality traits or quirks is akin to comparing cancer to the common cold and it really has to stop as people are frequently not getting the help that they need due to the incorrect cultural significance of the word. Those with the disorder hear from professionals that they have OCD and believe it just to be a hand washing or organisational thing that's just a bit neurotic and they leave their treatment, or never look for it in the first place.

Please don't take this as a personal attack, it isn't - the concept of OCD being a quirky personality thing about organisation and perfectionism or slightly excessive cleanliness is a widespread idea, so it doesn't surprise me to see it used in this way. However it continuing this way only makes sufferers suffer more when the disease is badly misunderstood. It's a devastating mental illness where sufferers feel compelled daily to carry out compulsions to their obsessions or they'll never escape the anxious ritualising and lead a normal life.

Many lose or leave jobs because of it, many end up in severe depression because of it, many don't leave their homes for fear of something triggering happening outside. The vast majority couldn't care less about their message organisation or whether it's clear before they start the day. Can we please all be mindful of how we use our language and if you weren't aware of this before, no worries, maybe you know a little more now.
 
Read and delete for me too I like my iMessages clean no clutter but sometime I do wish I kept some. Apple should have archive feature.
 
A friend recently sent me a terrible, awful, offensive, awesome joke, which I then shared with 2 other friends. I was just wanting to repeat it to someone else, but blanked on the details—and with my TLOCD (Text Delete OCD), I've deleted all this chains, and it's gone forever.
 
Am I the only one that still has chat log files from my AIM, ICQ, Google Talk, MSN Messenger days when I was a kid? lol. Granted, I don't think I've looked at them more than once or twice in the last 20 years but... lol. I don't think I ever will.
 
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May I respond to the multiple posters talking about OCD in saying that there's no relation with OCD and keeping your messaging organised (or your apps in colour coded order, or food shelves ordered in size, or albums in chronological order etc etc.) - these things are not OCD. It's is a debilitating anxiety order that ruins peoples lives and its least important factor is perfectionistic organising or having a clear messaging list.

OCD being constantly used as a adjective to describe our little personality traits or quirks is akin to comparing cancer to the common cold and it really has to stop as people are frequently not getting the help that they need due to the incorrect cultural significance of the word. Those with the disorder hear from professionals that they have OCD and believe it just to be a hand washing or organisational thing that's just a bit neurotic and they leave their treatment, or never look for it in the first place.

Please don't take this as a personal attack, it isn't - the concept of OCD being a quirky personality thing about organisation and perfectionism or slightly excessive cleanliness is a widespread idea, so it doesn't surprise me to see it used in this way. However it continuing this way only makes sufferers suffer more when the disease is badly misunderstood. It's a devastating mental illness where sufferers feel compelled daily to carry out compulsions to their obsessions or they'll never escape the anxious ritualising and lead a normal life.

Many lose or leave jobs because of it, many end up in severe depression because of it, many don't leave their homes for fear of something triggering happening outside. The vast majority couldn't care less about their message organisation or whether it's clear before they start the day. Can we please all be mindful of how we use our language and if you weren't aware of this before, no worries, maybe you know a little more now.
Will do! Sorry about that. I will edit my post
 
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