The real motive of any company that's successful. Others may have thought and done differently, but they're no longer around.There is no Apple philosophy other than "Make Money"
For performance, it's going to depend on the specifics. Some code will benefit, and may even require it, such as floating point calculation based applications, but in a general sense, it's the optimization to full 64bit that will help. For the most part however, not so much. I seriously doubt it will make iCal run notably faster for example.Anyway, I'm a 1,1 owner - ... and frankly I nor no one else even knows what a 64-bit EFI will do for me. The benefit is entirely unclear to me. I read most of the threads here about it and I still don't know. People I trust to comment (the minority here) often say there is none. So WTF? Why would 64-bit EFI be a sigh of Apple's responsibility or commitment? It seems a bit of a straw-man to me.
But the concept EFI64 is a straw man, is incorrect, as TheStrudel mentions. I know you're aware of this from posts in other threads. The lack of future graphics cards will be important to some, especially for video/graphics pros I would think, and the ability to run future versions of OS X that will be solely 64bit. So SL may be the only dual Kernel version released.
No, systems shouldn't be expected to run for 8 years, but 5 isn't unreasonable, and is the standard expectation for server grade systems before either being retasked, or disposed of. As your system is only a 2006 model, you've got some time yet on the OS (before the inability to upgrade), but you're already there on the graphics cards it seems (as the newest nVidia's don't include EFI32, and the HD4870 may be the last ATI card to do so).