http://eshop.macsales.com/Reviews/Framework.cfm?page=/Benchmarks/iMacSnowBench.html
Well judging by these tests. 8GB over 4GB in 64bit mode performance wise is nothing. Zero. And last time I checked Snow Leopard was a 64Bit OS.
Wait until the applications can take advantage of the extra ram that you install. Then go get 8 or 12 or 16 when the prices go down.
I installed a extra 2Gb left over from my old mac for a total of 6GB and can't tell any difference from 4GB. None. I doubt that there would be any difference between 6GB or 8GB right now or even in the future. 4Gb to 8Gb yes later.
The tests speak for themselves. Don't waste your money. And a year from now you will save money and it would be a nice upgrade when the OS can take advantage of the extra ram.