Yes, I think for most people who want memories and snapshots at a moment's notice, a phone camera is the right choice. I also agree that because "capturing life's moments" is what many people who've had cameras through the ages have wanted to do, the phone has indeed made the DSLR / MILC professional/hobbiest/amateur devices for the most part. I think this is great. I like the renewed focus by camera manufacturers on the higher end enthusiasts/professional market, to be honest.
Even as "that relative", I wouldn't bother with carrying a DSLR to any of my family outings. If I wanted memories of these, and it depends on the day whether I do

, a quickie with a phone would suffice. Edit: I should add that relatives at these gatherings do use their DSLRs and aren't anti-social. I have anti-social relatives, but to
@Darmok N Jalad's point, it's not related to their camera of choice

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