Did you mean 64 GB?I’ve upgraded it with Kingston Ram totally 68gb (8 x 8gb).
Unfortunately while I’m fairly technologically savvy I can’t say I know what maxmem is or how to know if I have it. I can remove some of the RAM if necessary would 32gb be more appropriate?
nvram boot-args
to view the current value of boot-args.sudo nvram "boot-args=maxmem=63488"
to set maxmem to 62 GB since macOS runs slow with 64 GB. I wonder if setting maxmem higher than the amount installed is ok?