Basically over the years I've used various photo apps from iPhoto, photos to Lightroom and I think from moving my photos to the various platforms it has changed the creation/capture dates in my photos.I use Photo Mechanic if I really need to go deep on metadata. It might be too complex and/or expensive for this particular use case since you'll only use it once. But...I'm curious what you mean when you say that Lr uses the wrong metadata? Is it because the metadata itself is wrong going in or because Lr uses attributes you don't want it to? If the latter, I'm genuinely curious about a little more detail on that point. In other words, can you describe a bit more on the outcome you're trying to get to?
At the moment I've just signed up again for Lightroom (cloud Version) and I've imported all my photos in but there are a few thousand with the wrong dates. As an example, My wedding from 2010 is labeled as April 2023 and there are many instances where this has happened. I've changed the date in Lightroom to the correct date which corrects them in Lightroom itself but it doesn't move the files into the correct date on the hard drive I've selected for Local storage of the images and this is driving me crazy because while I'm happy to use Lightroom, I ultimately want to have all my images preserved in date order in finder as my primary archive of the photos.
I've been searching all over google and tried loads of different apps and I can't find one to change the metadata correctly.
Would you still recommend Photo Mechanic for my needs? or do you have any other ideas?