For many users, Apple desktops are overpowered for most people but for serious stuff and work,
I know more network engineers that prefer using a MBP over a windows PC, and that seems pretty serious to me.
What an odd statement however, Apple created their M series SOC that seismically changed the computer industry, and somehow this is viewed as a negative because it out performs most other windows machines?
I would say the base model, MBA, iMac and Mini are great computers for home and students and I would never consider them over powered. The MBP, M4 Pro mini, and the Studio are more powerful models that provide ample CPU and GPU capability for people who want or need it.
they just seem like lifestyle products to me
Why? as I mentioned its used for real work, real people, students home needs, professional needs. I bought my M4 Max not because I can show it off on instragram or it gives me a look for my lifestyle, but rather its a superior machine over any windows machine.
I bought my M4 Max Studio this past June, I started out looking at building a new PC (something that I have extensive experience with), and found the price increases (at the time) for the CPU, and GPUs were such that I was getting a better deal with the studio, a much better deal.
Secondly macOS has so many advantages over windows, at least by my perspective, including less telemetry, more privacy, less AI being forced on me. The direction of MS wanting to make windows agentic is absolutely insane. Their RECALL feature is an absolute privacy nightmare in my book and them forcing me to use an online account at eveery turn.
I support windows desktops and work on servers for my job, I feel I have a good handle of windows, and consider myself power user. Yet the advantages of macos is numerous.
I'm a big proponent of using the right tool for the job, and for many people including you a windows machine is very much the right tool, but that doesn't mean that macs are not capable of serious work and are a lifestyle choice