People like you are the reason I hated working retail. I was far more willing to go out of my way to help someone that was polite and respectful than someone that acted like a child.
It's one thing to not know of a restocking fee but it's a completely different thing to know that it might have one and not confirm it when buying. And if you do confirm and then throw a fit bc you want it waived when it gets returned... I could care less if the person walked out and called corporate HQ.
A few years back when I was trying to buy a Wii and they were still scarce I had to be an ass to get the employee to do what he needed to do. I saw the fedex guy drop off a bunch of boxes and I asked him if he could check if they had received any Wii's.
He said that I had to wait because what he was doing had priority. What he was doing was getting orders ready for customers that weren't even in the store yet.
I waited 15 minutes just standing there and after I got rude with him he finally opened a box, took out a Wii and rung me up.
It took him 3 minutes to do that. He was getting orders ready for people that weren't even in the store yet and in the meantime he didn't want to finish a transaction that was going to take him 3 minutes to do.
I always start nice, but some people don't response to nice, some people only respond to "mean".
That doesn't mean that I'll start throwing a tantrum if I don't get what I want, but if an employee doesn't know what they are talking about and they are rude, you better believe they are going to get a mouthful.
Going back to a being a bit more on topic, the iPad is NOT a notebook computer. I don't know anyone who would call the iPad a notebook computer and customers shouldn't be blamed for Best Buy not updating their website properly. Remember, we are talking about a company that will sell you a $5 cable for $100 dollars so don't feel sorry about their loss.
If they try to charge you the restocking fee, simply sue them in small claims court. You can take lots of proof, such as Best Buy and Apple not listing the iPad as a notebook computer. You can also add in a "nominal" fee for your lost time.