Hunt is over
Found processor board with original quad core processor for $180 shipped on ebay. It arrived today, transferred my ram and everything is up an drunning. OSX even restored my open apps at the time of the crash
Now going to attempt to fix the board i have and see if it works
Well done
The evidence suggests that only a solder reball replacing the northbridge chip will fix that. You're looking at close to 100 bucks if the new chip is really cheap.
I would search on eBay for completed and sold broken processor boards, describe the fault and sell it at the average price, minus the last clip and northbridge heatsink for your spares bin.
Or throw it in the recycling if they don't sell