Both of those aren't deal breakers for me. I have no problem reaching the top and you can always flash a stock rom if you feel the need for asop.
I'm just waiting for a 5inch incredible X type version to reach AT&T, because the One X+ isn't enough of an upgrade to the One X.
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Honestly, it should be between the One X+ and the Galaxy Note II. The GS3 is inferior to both, IMO.
Me either. Dont care that the power/wake button is on the top. Especially if the home button wakes up the phone then id only be using the power/wake button to turn it off anyways. Even if the home button doesnt wake it up, its fine for me.
As for the Note 2....not even a consideration for me. Its just too big so i have no interest in it.
I also dont understand why some keep harping on Sense. Dont like it, download another launcher. Its as simple as that. I dont use TouchWiz....i use Apex and would probably do the same with Sense if i didnt like it. It shouldnt be an issue in the least.