For myself, to sync music from iTunes, I use iSyncr Wifi. It is pretty easy peasy.
To automatically have my photos download into iPhoto:
http://howto.cnet.com/8301-11310_39...-your-android-device-to-iclouds-photo-stream/
Gotta love Automator!
Cheers!
I've been using AirDroid and it's been doing well for me and is easy to use.