I agree again. It is unfortunate that many a stance is taken in defense from a "fanboy" perspective which does nothing but do a disservice to Apple and its customers, because it does not hold their feet to the fire when they need to be. In the end that would make all of us Apple customers and "fanboys" happier because it forces Apple to be a better company and make better products. Snowball effect. It's sad more people cannot see that and instead so many jump to the blind defense of their "beloved" Apple.
Absolutely valid points.
However, looking at the bigger picture, and if you imagine a big profit-hungry corporation (as most are) as a big greedy person, it is basic human nature at play. When you know you have celebrity status and are loved by most of the world, you are not going to readily admit your flaws, much less go about fixing them. You are going to exploit the powerful stance/leverage you have over your customer/fan base. That is what I believe is happening with Apple. On the one hand, it is wrong, but on the other hand, it's part of being a huge and hugely profitable business.
Personally, I am also not a huge fan of the direction they are going in, these days, and I also question their design decisions, esp. with regard to their laptops. If my mid-2009 MBP were to die and I were to be in the market for a new Apple laptop, I'd be between a rock and a hard place.
And yes, it would be better for all of us if people put aside loyalty, took an objective look at the products, and voiced their criticisms.