I agree. The specs of the two phones are there for everyone to see. What the OP could possibly expect to gain by hearing what other people would do for THEIR own reasons, is beyond me.
Another one, i have already said what i have to gain, is it so hard to understand, forums are full of people asking for opinions, thats one of the things forums are used for. You can gain much by asking people who already own a device what they think about a particular device, and if 100 persons like one model and 5 likes the other one....well then i have gotten pretty useful information.
I have the XR, after originally buying XS Max. I just couldn’t handle the OLED (ymmv). However, I’m glad I have the XR. It’s a great phone. I love the size (I DID have plus size phones before, so that’s something to consider). The battery life is fantastic. The camera is awesome. The connectivity is great (my daughter has the XS, and has a lot of problems with connectivity where mine has none).
The XR MIGHT be my favorite iPhone I’ve ever had.
What did you think about the XS max, do you think it´s too big? I have the 6 plus right now and it´s a 5.5" screen and i don´t think it´s so small, so i guess a 5.8" or 6.1" would be enough, but who knows i will have to try it and see. But my first thought is that the XS max sounds as a big phone?