Please don't take offense to this, but it is hard to read your post and believe you share an objective viewpoint.
While SSD has faster read times, the write times have been reported to be slower. From the the Ars review of the SSD vs HDD:
Does Ars think SSD is worth the premium?
Even with the faster read times, raw computing power of a 2.0ghz or 2.4ghz macbook will still trump the macbook air.
Regarding your "proof" that the 9400m "works really well":
Your proof has never been substantiated and is just a rumor. In fact, a follow up from arstechnica says:
Before you get everybody's hopes up, I think everybody should wait until benchmarks and reviews are released to objectively judge the differences.
There's a few things wrong with your argument.
Firstly, the SSD in the new macbook air is a lot faster than the first MBA's SSD, and Ars may not recommend the first SSD, but it's likely they will recommend this one.
Secondly, you misquoted the no improvement line. They did not see an improvement when they copied the drivers for the new macbooks to the old ones, not they didn't see an improvement when they played video on the new ones. The 9400 is definitely a lot better than anything else before it.
Thirdly, a faster processor is only useful in heavy computation. You would not need a faster processor browsing the net or writing documents. You would need to write and read from disk constantly though, so SSD would be more useful than a faster processor.