Ah and I'm pretty sure what happened in the method of lightning traveling through the house.
lightning struck our T.V. antenna. I make this assumption as it is melted and charred, from there it traveled into the t.v. system, zapping the T.v. Reciever, sound system, Dvd player and the Tive. Tivo is plugged into the phone lines to update, goes through the phone lines into the walls, in the walls our ethernet lines are wrapped around our phone lines, it made it easier to pull the wires a while ago, it then zapped every computer's ethernet card and overload the phone box thing.
oh and the holes in the roof were right next to the antenna, but they have been repaired now. Yay!