After re-reading this topic several times, my conclusion is to keep the Mac Pro (tentatively) and upgrade the graphics card. Here in lies another area of confusion, trying to find a graphics card that is faster but more importantly has more memory as the HD 5870 has but 1gig. An additional consideration is finding one that is "plug and play" and does not consume significantly more power than the 5870 so I do not have to also replace the power supply. Help appreciated
I just got an HD 7970 from MVC to replace my HD 5870. It's a plug-n-play affair with no fuss or muss when updating the OS. It's also WAY faster (than the 5870) with FCPX operations and it's affordable. I wanted to get the 980 but I really didn't want to have the issues associated OS updates. I don't make my bacon on a computer so the extra issues and expense weren't in my plans. When it becomes an older card and kinks are smoothed (and prices reduced) I'll look at it again.
Btw, the 7970 is advertised for 4k@60Hz. Haven't tried it but it's supposed to work.