As a therapist, this thread makes me chuckle. People will create rational narratives to fit to emotional narratives. Clearly that is what is going on. This is not an insult. Everyone does this. We look for evidence to support what our emotions want. There are vast bodies of research to support this (and great books). But we like to convince ourselves that the rational mind is in control. This would be an amazing example of that in the real world lol. Lastly, emotions tend to not budge with facts. That’s why I never give clients advice. People usually have their minds made up. Whatever gets that dopamine flowing is the one you’re going to go with.