Crashing/KPs on wake-up from sleep is usually RTC related. First step of any diagnostic is to check the RTC BR2032 battery voltage, replace it anytime it's below 3,00V. Crashing when waking up is a known cause of BootROM corruption. Never force use a Mac that is crashing when waking up, it will become a brick overtime.So I left it plugged out for a few days, given that I noticed the longer I left it out the longer it would stay on, my bet was it might stay on long enough to run ASD.
So today I ran Apple Service Diagnostics 3S149 and it passed everything! And what's even weirder is it is working fine and it hasn't shut down since. I did some basic maintenance and reset the pram 10 times in a row. And sleep and wake has magically fixed itself (it used to crash when waking from sleep). Northbridge chip is currently 63c and hasn't been above 70c so far. Curiouser and curiouser. Fingers crossed.
Btw, never use a CR2032 as a replacement for a BR2032 battery unless is not possible to find the later where you live, it's not the correct chemistry for the temperatures below/around the GPU and it will die in months.