Upgraded the X5660 in my 4,1>5,1 last night to a W3690 and took the 16GB of RAM up to 32GB. It was fairly straightforward, but for anybody who runs into the issue of really goddamn tight hex screws I found using a torx driver instead of a hex driver worked really well. I was worried about stripping the heads as the hex driver kept slipping but had no such issue with a torx driver.
Also, when tightening the nuts back on, I found tighten until you can feel the bolts start becoming difficult to turn and then unscrew about a quarter turn. When you look through the heatsink all the bolt heads should be level.
Temps were ~83'c under Prime95 last night and after running the FPU torture test overnight, this morning they have stabilised at ~76'c, so I think the Arctic Silver 5 has burned in properly now. Fans still whisper quiet too.
GeekBench 4 scores have increased 14% in single core and 13% in multicore.