Dev beta or public? I've checked like 5 times in the last hour and nada for public beta.
If the beta isn't showing up in the mac app store you can still get it with direct links in apple's developer forums.
But I don't like it when apple release stuff on microsoft's patch tuesdays. They know when microsoft's patch tuesday is. They could easily avoid it.
They also know many people now have multiple systems. It is annoying when updates for different systems come out the same day.
Also true if you only have apple's four systems macos, tvos, ios and watchos.
Do they think the world will stop for them and people will just spend their whole day updating their devices?
Nope. Many will stagger them forcibly. Disable automatic downloads - which you can do for windows too, by the way, despite a common misconception that you can't for windows 10. I agree though that microsoft are now making this more difficult than apple.
Then just update at most 1 system per day.
Of course the downside of this is sometimes you may end up missing some updates. For example when sierra golden masters came out, some of them only lasted less than a day before the next one came out. This problem is rare though.