i'm with you on this. i find it really strange many people seem to have this obsession with being able to lay the phone on the screen. doesn't seem practical to me. i'd rather it have no lip, the thinner the better.
When sitting by the computer, which most of us no doubt do more than we want, I have the phone on the desk to avoid having to pick it up from the pocket every time I need/want to check it. I have loads of notifications dropping in all the time, but only the most important with sound and/or vibration, so when I for one reason or another don't want to be disturbed more than necessary, I simply put it face down on the desk.
Not really an obsession, it just simplifies my life