Indeed.
Life comes down to a few lessons. One is that the world is a big place, the human race is wonderful and varied, and my experience, my little corner of the world, my likes and fears and hopes, are not necessarily universal (there are a few universal hopes; coffee is not one of them).
I (mostly) drink ristrettos, pulled by my hands from coffee ground by the same hands, and roasted by me exactly 4-6 days earlier, using a roasting profile that I consider almost a trade secret. No more, no less. I (and many others) could with great ease look down at and be critical of anyone who spouts off about drinking mere espresso. (pun intended) But, a better approach is to be happy for someone who is happy with whatever he or she drinks. Coffee (Coffee, not coffee) helps us to choose encouragement, enjoyment, learning, peace, warmth, not critical, mindless, pointless, overbearing, undiscriminating captiousness.
If I have a choice between drinking a God Shot, at home, alone, or going to Starbucks with close friends and having a wonderful two hour conversation, well, pass the over-roasted junk, which I will happily order and drink in order to spend time with friends. Easy choice.
More recently, a friend suggested in another thread trying the Bialetti. I had a choice. I could use the suggestion as an opportunity to beat my chest and be critical so I could show off my coffee knowledge. Or, I could think "hmmm, hey there's something new to try." I am glad I took the second path. I won't drink the Bialetti every night for my 7 pm cup, but I will do so a night or two a week. It is a wonderful new experience and I am the richer for not letting snobbery get in the way of learning.
Enjoy what you drink. Let others do the same. Then, it's all good and we just go have another cup.
"I have come to the frightening conclusion that I am the decisive element. It is my personal approach that creates the climate. It is my daily mood that makes the weather. I possess tremendous power to make life miserable or joyous. I can be a tool of torture or an instrument of inspiration; I can humiliate or humor, hurt or heal. In all situations, it is my response that decides whether a crisis is escalated or de-escalated, and a person humanized or de-humanized.."
Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe