So after all the hype and asking people on here what i was not understanding i have continued to try and like TF2. After the session i just finished, I have to say it is flat out terrible and I am not sure why there was such a big fuss about it.
If you like any console shooting games...and I mean any at all, you will not like this game. This game has no realism whatsoever and really is just plain dumb.
So I would recommend not buying this game, and wish there was a way to get a refund from steam.
just my opinion and short review, so take it as it is.
Before you bought it, you must have seen some trailers, or screenshots that showed the heavy over-the-top cartoon line. It's supposed to be a unrealistic and expressionist setting. Like The Incredibles, and other Pixar films;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnuYi-nzE90
1) The game is not about immersion. Choosing a cartoon style, allowed them to use strong colors that are much more interesting to look at, than dark greys and black of a realistic generic war game, like Call of Duty or Rainbow Six.
2) One of Valves arguments is that, all shooters, no matter if it's Ghost Recon, Halo, Gears of War, Call of Duty, Battlefield or something else - Always have moments that look stupid. Bunny jumping, unrealistic fights... there are tons of illogical things going on in even the most "realistic" war games.
TF2 plays on this and goes in a different direction. It doesn't want to be realistic. Instead you can be creative and HAVE FUN. You can do stupid, silly and funny stuff. They had gameplay and fun factor as a priority over realism.
3)TF2 looks like no other game out there.
Almost all online shooters are about world war 2, terrorists and about using modern day weapons.
In conclusion, I will say that the game is downright fantastic. It might not be for you, but I don't think anyone could say it's bad, when it clearly sets a new standard for replyability, unlockables, free post-release downloads, art design, balancing, variation in classes, items and looks, along with it's great level design, fantastic animations and hilarious high quality sound work.
I could go on about it. I'll say though - The game can be hard to get into. Learning the classes takes some time. Learning the objectives take time. You might have to spent a good 10 hours or so to really find out, what class works best for you.
I would highly recommend Left 4 Dead also. It's more of a co-op experience, but also a Valve game. Very good.