Some final thoughts. As always, these are simply my opinion after spending 8 days with the APM. Others certainly have differing opinions and hopefully will offer them up so that those who are trying to decide how to spend their hard earned cash have more material to help in their process.
The sound on the AirPods Max is really good. They are still bluetooth headphones but overall the sound is pleasing and most people will really like it. The transparency mode is fantastic and does not have an equal in this space at the moment, no matter the price tag. The build is good. They definitely feel solid. These seamlessly connect to all of your Apple devices, and what bugs exist for connectivity are minor.
On the downside, the materials, while nice, don't feel $550 nice. The price tag is not due to materials, it is due to the internals. That is fine, just don't expect a luxury feel, but rather a technical powerhouse. They were not comfortable for me. Even with the clamping force improving after stretching them out, the weight was always there. To me they feel heavy. The battery has to be better. When the competition is putting up 1.5-2x the run time, Apple need to do better. No power button also really annoys me. Leaving them out of the case overnight drained 5-8% (1-1.5 hours of battery) of what is already a relatively short battery life. The controls are fine, but not great. They are lagging behind the competition. Better placement, a power button, and touch would go a long to bringing them up to the competition.
What I would hope for in the second iteration is longer battery life, reduced weight, better (or more appropriate) materials, better controls, USB-C, and a case. I think these are pretty good for a Gen 1 and I suspect that Gen 2 will be a rather large leap forward.
I have decided to return the AirPods. The dealbreaker was the comfort. I dislike the clamping force and the weight.
In the end, I would recommend the AirPods Max for an Apple user that has at least 3 Apple devices to switch between and is mostly carrying them between work and home. I would also suggest purchasing from somewhere with a longer return policy to see if they work for you (this really goes for all headphones) due to the potential of comfort issues. Even then I would strongly suggest checking out the Sony or Bose offering first to see if they work for you.
So the B&O's are super comfy 'eh?
Particularly in comparison to the APM?
I may need to look at those, despite the price
They are still breaking in, but as they stand now they're more comfortable than the APM on my head. Note, on my head. Comfort is subjective and something you never really can judge until you try them. B&O does offer a 30 day return. Do know that the total time from requesting a return to receiving a refund is likely to be 2-3 weeks (this does not count as part of the 30 days) so you will be waiting to get your money back. Keep in mind that the H95 still isn't lightweight (they weigh in at 323g) but the weight is more balanced throghout the headphone. The APM's 385g seem heavily focused in the cups.