I certainly use most of my 16 GB (MacBook Pro), and I've seen Lightroom itself use 6-8 GB (plus some tasks that seem to be spawned by Lightroom) - I am pretty sure I tweaked an LR setting to let it go above 50%... A friend has had LR above 32 GB (absolutely huge library above 500,000 images!).
I'd certainly have a minimum of 16 GB of RAM with any significant (thousands of images) library, or if there are high resolution cameras involved. 32 GB with any really large (100,000 image?) library. My friend with the 500,000 image library saw a big boost from having 64 GB. Yes, Lightroom will run in 8 GB, but it will hit disk caching unless the library is small (both in number of images and in resolution).
At least the catalog and previews should be on SSD - the originals for large libraries quickly become impractical to store on SSDs, because several terabytes of photos are not hard to come up with!