Normally people just install CPU A to make sure it can boot up before adding the 2nd CPU. It could be over-tightening as you suggested since you didn't use any washers.No washers, but as per my post, both CPU fans are spinning so I'm guessing the connector is connected? Could it be that it's connected enough to make the fans spin but not post?
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Am I right in assuming then, that I need to be at 5,1 for this to work at all, regardless of my RAM speed?
W5590 still uses Nehalem core and 4,1 would recognize the CPUs, but you need to upgrade to 5,1 to recognize 1333MHz RAM speed.