See but that's the thing. I look at the site here and you have people hyper critical of Apple but still they love the company. They will also explain pros and cons of iPhone and Android. For the most part they don't just close their minds. Maybe I'm too frequent here.. I don't know xD
I primarily frequent androidforums.com. I find that the moderators are very good there and the conversations tend to more civil than what you would see in many unmoderated sites. This is the other tech forum site that I visit and I do find this site to be pretty well moderated as well.
I think there is fanboyism in all of us to some extent. I do feel it in myself at times. I do hope that when I post about devices that I like or don't like that I don't sound too fanboyish.