I'm out of town right now and I'm staying by an Apple Store.That's what I did before. What do you mean by decently large folder? I put in there my ebooks folder of 1.89GB and 1520 items. I selected grid. If there was any lag it would be at first show when it loads up the little icons on the "grid", after that if I click on the stack it smoothly opens up the stack, all icons are there, books, subfolders. Notification slides in and out smoothly. I use Control+up arrow to show Mission Control... they show up smoothly. Animation is OK.
I'm going to go over right now (well, in 20 mins) and try that model because I've tried it before and there certainly wasn't "NO LAG".
But with the way you're describing it I am very happy for you. Maybe the ones released later work better?