I haven't read through the whole forum, just the first couple posts. I'm a switcher, never used a mac before this macbook. Got it the first day C2D came out.
So far my experience has been far superior than anything else I've used, including both Win and Lin. I've almost adopted the Apple add telling everybody "on the mac, it just works". I still have a PC, my gf has a PC, at work PCs, and I hate using them now. Things are much simpler on the MAC - so I say it's far superior. No bugs for me so far, no crashes (at least nothing serious, some prog closing and restarting). I'm happy...
Also, yes, it's sometimes hard as a switcher, things aren't where I expect them to be - one thing though - CLICK ON THE HELP BUTTON UP THERE AND SEARCH THE PROGRAM HELP
I did not like the DVD player either, read part of the help stuff, now I think of it as the greatest DVD player I used.
Give it time, you'll really love it... And things just work - went to coffee shop, spent 2 hours trying to get a friend's HP to work with the wireless there - my macbook, opened from sleep, just works... Need motorola RAZR v3m to work with iSync, google that, somebody made a small file, dropped that into library, it worked... The same phone on windows - I had to install software, then look for drivers, then look for other stuff... way too much of a headache, at the end to only find that hey, this is way too much trouble...
I still keep my option of having a Window backup, Parallels are great, but having a second PC is even better.
2 USB ports - get a HUB... problem solved...
Basically, you get it - I became a Mac Addict, please help...