I'm in the same boat with Desktop Connect (although trying to connect to 2 Macs in my home). I understand I need to configure my home router for port forwarding to do so but the help on Desktop Connect and developer's website offer little to no specific guidance on how to do this. I've contacted the developer (awaiting a response) and posted on their forums (which appear to be barely used) but was wondering if in the mean time, anyone here with experience would be willing to offer some assistance/guidance.
Thanks in advance for any help/suggestions.
Check:
http://portforward.com/
They have a variety of equipment listed on their site and have instructions for all kinds of forwarding situations. See if anything there helps you getting through the process with your equipment. That's the problem with forwarding. There is no standard way to do it because every manufacturer and often every model differs.